For me the
World Vision reversal in March of 2014 was something of a tipping point. I was not all the way there as far as marriage equality, goes as will be clear from what follows, but I was
trending (A word that you will see I used frequently in what follows). It was clear to me that whatever force/tribe was at work in people pulling their funding - that I wasn't a part of it. If
that was evangelicalism, I wasn't evangelical
that anymore. The following were my thoughts the day after World Vision reversed itself. I am revisiting it because as I look back, I do see God at work in moving me along - even as I was only
trending ... I believe I wrote this March 26, 2014.
I would not say that I am “for” Gay marriage. In fact for probably at least 95% of my life I have held a traditional view quite strongly. But, at this point I have read enough about this and thought enough about this to feel that the “issue”(what an awful word to use because we are speaking of people for whom Jesus died) is more open than the very vocal opponents of gay marriage would want to admit.
[i] Further, for me this “issue” is an “outer” ring issue – not the center because for me Jesus is the center – for me the gospel (good news) is not at stake.
[ii] So I am working to be as clear as possible: Jesus being the center is not a bait and switch tactic for me, it is actually the only way I can see to follow Jesus. And this way will only work if Jesus is actually alive and has actually poured out his Spirit.
[iii]
The above having been said, for me this “issue” points to the larger issue(s) of Authority – or perhaps from a different angle Revelation. The question of Authority as I understand it is one of what (or I would say better said better who) will guide our actions. The larger tribe, evangelicalism, of which I have long been a part, has answered the question of authority with the answer that the Bible is the absolute final answer.
[iv] This answer initially produces deep comfort and confidence and certainty but over the course of history produces deep-seated division, and a good deal of anxiety and fear.
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A primary place this fear and anxiety seems to be manifesting at the present moment is around the question of same-sex marriage and the response of the church.
But there is a long history of this fear manifesting, around other “issues” (and it still does at times). What follows are a number of “questions/actions/positions” that can/do produce anxiety and division, but also demonstrate that we don’t (and I would contend no one else does either) just read the Bible and do what the Bible says.
When I was a student at Calvin there was much anxiety within the CRC around the question of women in leadership. I was/am aware of this anxiety and fear, and the reaction that can flow from “allowing” women to teach. I entered the role of lead pastor convinced that women could and should speak, I am ashamed to say I did not really make any movement in this direction until the past year- primarily because of fear of how people would react. This fear of letting women teach, when I am gut-level honest, stems from two places. The first being the fact that letting women teach seems to go against the “clear” teaching of The Bible. The fear of letting women teach is/was compounded by the fact that letting women teach, immediately opens us(me) up to the charge that we are not being true to the Bible, the final authority. Yet, I think that hearing the voice of women has been rather life-giving for our ekklesia and it seems quite evident to me that the Spirit has moved as they have spoken.
If we are being really honest there is no Biblical prohibition against slavery. Taken at face value in fact there is an affirmation of slavery. The Bible says slaves obey your masters. If the Bible is the final authority, and the Bible says is how we live - we should in reality pull our support from IJM and urge them to change their mission from freeing slaves, to urging masters to treat their slaves with kindness, and to urge slaves to serve their masters as unto the Lord.
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If we are being really honest, from a strict The Bible says, perspective almost every divorced and remarried person is guilty of adultery.
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If we were really just following and doing what The Bible says I would guess that almost every male who is older than like 12 or 13 should have by this point in their life gauged out an eye or two (and there may even be a few women who would need to wear a patch at this point in their life).
If we were to just follow what the Bible says then we would of necessity teach and hold to an Ancient Near East Cosmology. We would say the earth is fixed on pillars - it cannot be moved, and that there are domes that cover the earth.
[x] As, you may or may not know, the question of origins and cosmology is still a really big deal in some circles.
[xi]
If we strictly live by The Bible says …We would confess our disobedience for the way in which we have been welcoming each other and begin greeting each other with “a holy kiss.”
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In my opinion the Bible is pretty clear, that people should only be baptized when they are able to make a confession that Jesus is Lord, and then the ideal is immersion. I throw down a friendly challenge to show me how the Bible says we should baptize babies.
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From a strict The Bible says perspective I should spend a good deal more time railing against the sin of gluttony.
[xiv]
I could go on… head coverings, make-up, jewelry, lending at interest, tithing/giving, view of the “end-times,” pre-destination v. free will etc…
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So what is my point? Am I just throwing the Bible out? Nope. I can’t and won’t, because the Bible was Jesus’ book. No; just because the Bible has been misused I don’t want to throw the Bible out. I am convinced the answer to misuse is not “no” use, but right use.
What would I think is the right use? I think Jesus thought the Bible pointed to him.
[xvi] I think Bible points to Jesus as the One who perfectly reveals God.
[xvii]I think the Bible points to Jesus as the One who has all authority in Heaven and on Earth.
[xviii] I think the Bible points to Jesus as the one who is present to us and leading us through His life-giving Spirit.
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To sum-up: the Bible will without fail point to Jesus as the giver of life; it will point to Jesus as the absolute, final authority.
However, if we set the Bible up as the absolute final authority, this will lead in varying degrees to a cursed anxious existence and put us at enmity with one another… and it can quite literally lead to death.
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The general push-back is: Well if the Bible is not the absolute final authority then won’t we just end up in gross subjectivism –where everybody simply does what is right in their own eyes?
The short answer is: absolutely yes everybody will simply do what is right their own eyes - if Jesus has not beaten death and is not currently present with us through the Holy Spirit.
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What would keep me from making Jesus simply a projection of my wish-fulfillment, a cipher onto which I project what I want? Well the only thing would be a person, the real actual Risen and Ascended Lord Jesus; the Risen Jesus and the community that he is present to through the Spirit.
[xxii] Community and the Holy Spirit – on my own I would certainly go off the rails – we have become so individualistic in reflecting our culture - that we tend to forget that an essential factor in avoiding complete subjectivism is the our community. This is true in following the Spirit and in reading our Bibles. Both were always meant to be communal.
So, to circle back to the question that precipitated my prayer this morning ....
Where am I? To be completely transparent I am leaning towards inclusion and acceptance of people who have entered into covenantal life-long monogamous relationships with another person of the same sex. I’m not all the way there, but to be honest that is how I am trending and probably have been for about eleven months.
Why say “trending” and not just come out and be for inclusion? First, in complete honesty with myself, I suppose I am afraid. I know what being for inclusion could mean for an ekklessia. I know what it could mean for me professionally.
[xxiii] I’m afraid of what saying this could mean for the momentum we have going with good things at Southside. I am also afraid that I could be being disloyal to God and simply accommodating sin.
[xxiv]
Given this fear, which is altogether real for me; Why trend this way?
First, the movement of the Spirit throughout the Biblical narrative is towards the removal of barriers that cause great hostility and separation.
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Second, this is a deeply pastoral matter, of how to stand with and be with and love people who are experiencing same-sex attractions. For most of my life I have assumed that the most pastoral thing to do is to “hate the sin and love the sinner.” I can only imagine how this would sound to someone who is attracted to the same sex – I can only imagine how the comments in CHRISTIANITY TODAY (man was there a proliferation of ALL CAPS writing) would sound to a person who has same-sex attractions.
[xxvi] I’m beginning to see that who I stand with is every bit as important as what I stand for.
Third, because there is evidence of the Spirit in the lives of people in committed monogamous same-sex relationships and evidence of the Spirit was the reasoning of the council in Jerusalem.
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Fourth, I’m a student of history and moved by history, and I know which “side” I would hope I would have had the courage to be on during the slavery debates, the civil rights debates, during the interment of Japanese-Americans in World War 2. I know who I would have liked to have stood with. I have often pictured myself in those situations acting with great courage and conviction, and I have often wished I could be in situation to act with courage. What I realize now is that probably in many of those situations people of faith experienced a bunch of fear and ambivalence… after all the Bible speaks approvingly of slavery, and speaking out could mean loss of employment, friends etc... I know I would have liked to have acted with more courage in my own history in helping women move into speaking and teaching roles within the church. At the present moment a few things are clear. It is undeniable that people who find themselves attracted to those of the same-sex have been treated brutally, and are still at times. I hope if I get “all the way for” or “close enough” I will act with some courage and wisdom. I would like grandchildren of mine (if marriage equality/or some type of recognized covenantal union is how the Spirit is moving) to know that their grandparents acted with some courage – knowing that that “the acting” could cost them – the cost of a small laying down of their lives for those who had been marginalized by the church.
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Fifth, this “issue” has been decided by the next generation, and the church stands to lose the next generation – by taking a hard line.
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Sixth, I am persuaded that this is a disputable matter. That the gospel doesn’t hang on this, and in disputable matters it is better to err on the side of inclusion.
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Seventh, the complete vitriol and what to me was thinly disguised disgust and borderline hate expressed on the CHRISTIANITY TODAY comment page– leaves me desiring to be as far from that type of religion as possible. I was simply dumbfounded by the withdrawal of funding and the threats.
Those are some of the reasons I am leaning/trending towards acceptance. I feel even closer and more at peace after having written them out.
So this is where I am. Convinced Jesus is the perfect Revelation of God. Convinced that Jesus is the final authority and that he is with us through his Spirit in community. I am trending (I guess I would say quite strongly though not all the way there) towards affirming committed consensual adult same-sex unions. Now I know where I am (and now you know as well if you are reading this).
Grace and Peace,
John
[i] Here in short is my summation of why I see this as less than a settled question from a strictly Biblical sense:
1. The Bible never speaks positively of homosexual activity. Stated in the negative: any reference dealing with homosexual activity is completely negative – the actions are prohibited.
2. However, the people in the Ancient Near East and the Roman Empire had no knowledge of adult consensual monogamous relationships.
3. The Ancient Near East and Roman Empire knew nothing of our conception of same sex attraction or orientation… they only spoke in terms actions.
4. The same-sex actions which they knew were generally speaking either pederasty or male shrine prostitution.
5. So while it is clear that the Bible speaks completely negatively of homosexual activity – it is not clear (and I think this is true no matter how often people say THE BIBLE IS CLEAR! in comment sections) that what is being condemned is monogamous committed adult consensual relations (since these relations did not exist).
For further research in case you are interested - I have not read all these but am familiar with their arguments:
A Letter to my Congregation I have read this and found it fairly persuasive – I am probably biased because Ken is a friend;
What God has joined together I have met the author and found that he at least made me question my traditional view ;
Jesus the Bible and Homosexuality; the go to and strongest case for sticking with the traditional view and maintaining strict prohibition of any homosexual activity
The Bible and Homosexual Practice: Texts and Hermeneutics my understanding is that this is pretty technical and it is easy to get lost in the weeds of the analysis of Greek words;
Homosexuality and the Bible: Two views the two views book are almost always helpful – but also raise the question of pervasive interpretive pluralism… much more in the paper I wrote for SVS…
[ii] In short for me the gospel – is the good news that Jesus perfectly reveals God. It is the good news of Jesus.
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[iii] “Way” is a good word. Way connotes movement. Jesus said he was the way, and that he would send us The Comforter – The Spirit to guide us into all truth.. He did not say “I will send you a Book.” Or to nuance this slightly differently – a centered-set requires a living center. We can be the “People of the book” without a living center. To a certain extent being a people of “The Book” works – but ultimately I think “People of the Book” is an Islamic approach to life not a Jesus following approach to life.
[iv] In fact many institutions within the tribe feel so strongly about this that their statements of Faith begin with the Bible! I think this is completely dangerous. Ultimately I do not think we can ground our faith in a book, but must ground our faith in a person. I engage with the question of absolute final authority extensively in
this paper that I wrote for and presented to the Society of Vineyard Scholars.
[v] I have read this
Rehabilitating Inerrancy in a culture of Fear in short I found it convincing and brilliant – it is also at points fairly technical. The gist is that the huge trump card of the “The Bible says…” is used as a weapon for one’s own interpretation – and then The Bible(and one’s interpretation) gets conflated with God – so to question The Bible is to question God. This cultivates tremendous anxiety within the evangelical system.
[vi] And again if we conflate The Bible with God – then in going “against” the Bible we are going “against” God.
[vii]Again please see my
paper for this extended argument
[viii] A passing familiarity with US history will show that the Bible was very much used in defense of slavery – the scenes of the masters reading the Bible to their(property) slaves in 12 years a slave are devastating (I felt like vomiting, weeping and taking a shower – in that order).
The Civil War as Theological Crisis is a very sustained and persuasive demonstration of how the Bible was used to argue for slavery. A cursory reading of Jim Crow history will show that the Bible was very much used to bolster claims of racial inferiority and “separate but equal” laws.
[ix] My Greek prof at seminary pretty convincingly argued – that really even the so-called exception is no exception.
[x] This was not just poetic language it was the science of the day – the earth is literally fixed on pillars – there are diagrams of this.
[xi] People still potentially lose jobs and friends over this question. http://www.timesfreepress.com/news/2014/mar/02/bryan-college-draws-takes-stand-creation-has-profe/
[xii] Not trying to be cute… just pointing out that this command is really clear and repeated 4 times in the New Testament. There may be the same number of New Testament reference to homosexuality.
[xiii] This may seem like a quaint relic of the past – but this was a deal breaker in the community I grew up in. And well in centuries before people cared enough to kill over this one.
[xiv] This excerpt is to my mind dead-on and reveals our real issue and hypocrisy when we single out a sin.
[xv] On each issue if the Bible is conflated with the Living God there is tremendous opportunity for anxiety, because in this conflation – the Bible becomes for us an immortality structure. I would say, we are all at some level drawn towards immortality structures because of our death anxiety (Heb 2:14). The real problem is when these immortality structures get threatened – then we begin to engage in worldview defense and this often turns violent. If not outright physically violent – then at a minimum verbally violent (witness the comments – in response to WV’s decision in the comment section of the Christianity Today article). Here is one resource I found incredibly helpful in seeing this
The Slavery of Death.
[xvi] John 5:39
[xvii] John 14:9-10
[xviii] Matthew 28:16-20
[xix] John 14:25-27
[xx][xx] Galatians 3:10 in particular, but really to a certain extent the whole letter shows that living by the letter kills I would recommend again Slavery of Death
[xxi] Another less positive reply to this: Could being led by the Spirit be any more subjective than the way we currently pick and choose which parts of the Bible to follow? Or, to paraphrase Scot McKnight from Blue Parakeet… We just read the Bible and do what it says… hogwash.
[xxii] John 16:12-15; Romans 5:5; 2 Corinthians 3:6 among other places
[xxiii] I really appreciated the prayer on Sunday – that I would be afraid – that I would use my voice. I have a friend who used his voice on this matter and he was dismissed from the church he had led for close to twenty years and now works for Home Depot. We never do our best thinking when we are afraid – so I’m praying perfect love will cast out all fear.
[xxiv] Here is a deep reality though – there are risks all around this. And a deeper risk might just be exclusion and missing out on what the Holy Spirit is doing. Biblically speaking in Acts 15 the deeper risk was exclusion and missing what the Holy Spirit was doing.
[xxv] Christ came and preached peace to near and far – he tore down the wall of hostility. Acts 15 is all about the inclusion of a previously excluded group of people.
[xxvi] Loving the Sinner hating the sin – sounds great but is nearly impossible particularly in the case of attempting to love people who have same-sex attractions.
Unclean does a brilliant job showing why this is the case. The Christianity Today comment section is a living example of how it is almost impossible.
[xxvii] http://www.patheos.com/blogs/jesuscreed/2013/04/03/learning-from-lesbians-jeff-cook/; A friend told about going to a worship gathering comprised of people in the LGBTQ community and having a lesbian pastor pray for him and the Holy Spirit falling on him with power. He wants her to perform his funeral.
[xxviii] When I’m objective I see there could be a cost – possibly my job probably for sure some members of the Vineyard maybe some of you (if you ever get this) – but when I evaluate that as the cost I feel pretty cowardly not standing with people who have been oppressed for a really long time.
[xxix] Anecdotally for both of my teenage daughters this issue is clear – and it is clearly not like the majority of commenters at Christianity Today saw it. All polls indicate the same thing for people under 30 – even 62% of Republicans under thirty. Now of course polls are no way to decide – but it does show that things are “clear” to this generation in a different way.
[xxx] I think Ken Wilson is right in A letter to my Congregation. I agree with his analysis of Romans 14. Eating meat sacrificed to idols was every bit as hot in the moment as this debate is right now. Listen to Ken
hear.